Marriage is a tomb, divorce is rebirth, and the mistress loves tomb? "6 questions to think about" before entering marriage

Many elders still believe that marriage is a woman's life, and that only by getting married and having children can you be happy. But is this really the case? Is marriage a fortress, paradise, or a tomb of love? Some people's misfortune begins after marriage. If they unfortunately marry a miser, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law problems, child-giving pressure, domestic violence..., life after marriage is like a human being; at this time, some people will leave, and eventually leave the marriage and escape from the "tomb of love" and live the life they want.

In this regard, Yuanqi.com asked everyone's views on marriage on the face fan group, "Marriage is a tomb, so what is divorce?", which caused netizens to leave messages to reply to their views on marriage. Most people believe that divorce is an exclusion, freedom, and paradise. What do you think about marriage and divorce?

Which type of view do you prefer for marriage?

A netizen said that divorce is the road to regaining new life. "Divorce is to go to heaven! The fragrance of freedom", "New milestone in life", "The back garden of life", "The opportunity for rebirth", "Infinite beautiful times in life!", "Marriage is the tomb of love, divorce is the beginning of happiness", "Rebirth from the fire", "Climb the mountain, start to climb to the peak from the bottom of the valley", "Reincarnate for the second time, come back to a better life", "Explanation~Regain freedom", "Marriage is the tomb, divorce is the true face".

Odd netizen said that remarrying after divorce is to step into the grave again. "Remarriage means being confused!", "Divorce is starting the next tomb", "People outside want to jump in; people inside want to escape even more", "Resurrection in death, and then prepare to step into the tomb", "Divorce is to get rid of the bones, and remarriage is to get reburied", "Find a better place to go".

Some netizens also said that marriage is the beginning of a whole family and do not encourage divorce. "Marriage is the beginning of a full family and also the learning of life subjects. Nine out of ten life is unhappy, couples should be content and happy and endure each other," "It is normal for young people to divorce today, but it will affect the heartbreak of children", "Those who have marriages have blood and purity. If they are not satisfied after marriage, they will first be sure to grit their teeth and hold back for their children's future, hoping that their children will grow up safely and smoothly", "For the happiness of marriage, divorce is a landlord."

In addition to the above comments, there are also some interesting comments from netizens. "Divorce is a change of marriage, climbing out of the tomb", "Divorce is waking up from the coffin! Resurrection", "Many people climb out of the tomb for a while, and they will enter the tomb again! Re-due the tomb dream", "Once you get to the earth, you will be reborn again", "Being robbed by a mistress", "Reincarnation of the earth", "Removing from the sea of ​​suffering, attaining the Tao and ascending to heaven", "Opening the coffin to raise money", "Divorce is removing the tomb", "Climbing out of the tomb by yourself".

Networkers share "Love Theory"

One of them also shared "Love Theory" to see what netizens think about marriage and feelings

If marriage is a tomb of love, then...

Lenge for love → Do not know how to live or die

Looking for objects → Live impatient

Gay → Look at the wind for your own cemetery

Love → The deadline is not far away

Confession → Digging the tomb yourself

Rejection → Escape from Death

Talk about love → What is this not a life-threatening book → Pay in installments for your own cemetery

Cold battle → Resting and panting

Breakup → Who is coming to ask for marriage → Instigate self-killing

Savings Marriage Fund → Insurance insurance → A foot has stepped into the coffin

to marry → double sacrifices for love

third party → tomb

to empathy → tomb

to divorce → tomb

to divorce → tomb

to marry → tomb

to marry → tomb

to marry → tomb

to marry → tomb

to marry → tomb

to marry → to support the proof of marriage → Death certificate issued by the court

collective marriage → collective self-killing

wedding tide → cemetery administrator

wedding anniversary → cemetery administrator

wedding anniversary → Qingming Shou Tomb Festival

General marriage → Final regular marriage

Screen telecom marriage → Sudden death

Get back to the car first and replenish votes → Suffering death

Marrying on the order of the son → No one knows how to die

He is unrestrained about marriage → Life and death

Fake marriage → Pretending death

Fantasy of the world → The most poisonous woman is always carrying a woman to the tomb of love → the most poisonous woman's heart

The man always takes a woman to the tomb of love → The poisonous husband

Before entering marriage, think about 6 questions. Marriage is a major decision in life. It requires careful thinking and measurement. Don’t be excited and enter the marriage at once. Before entering marriage, you should ask yourself the following 6 questions:

1. Choose the target of your relationship carefully: find a partner who is suitable for you, can respect, trust and support each other, and can jointly run a happy marriage. Don't choose objects hastily because of pressure.

2. Understand the family background of both parties: Marriage is not just a matter of two people, but also involves the background and value of both parties’ families. Understanding the other party’s family background can help you better understand the other party and avoid conflicts in the future.

3. Good conditions should be discussed before marriage: marriage requires common understanding, including after-marriage life planning, financial management, child care, etc., and should be discussed clearly before marriage to ensure that both parties can support each other in the future.

4. Marriage requires hard work: Marriage is not a static state, and requires both parties to work hard work. Learn to communicate, understand, and be appropriate, and often express concern and love for the other party.

5. Marriage is not a necessity in life: Marriage is a choice in life, and not everyone must get married. If you think you can do well in a single body, don't be influenced by pressure or other people's expectations.

6.Don't rush to make decisions: Marriage is an important decision, don't rush to make decisions. You must understand yourself and the other party well, think about your value and life goals, and then make a decision.

It is not easy to meet a good partner. Marriage does not necessarily mean that there is a support. You still have to have the ability to support yourself. The most important thing is to decide the life you want. If you are married, you are unhappy and brave enough to leave, and if you are not married, you should first think carefully about whether it is suitable for you. I wish everyone can move towards the happiness you want!