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"Don't see difficulties first in everything, you must see opportunities first." With a strong body to overcome adversity, you must be able to look down on yourself first! ／Deputy Director of the Front Desk Electrical Technology System Integration Office Summary

There are always some things in life that are not as satisfactory as possible. Some people choose to face it, some people choose to escape, and they are struggling to turn over when they are in trouble. Faced with the setbacks in life, I think "Only by breaking it can we get over it. It is better to go and see it if you are worried about it. If you have the opportunity, there is no chance. This is my approach. Maybe I won’t succeed every time, but at least I will not regret it if I try it."

With the ambition to overcome adversity, I successfully got into Taichung No. 1 Middle School and Datong Institute of Technology. After serving in the military, I entered Datong Company. After applying for a grant from Datong Institute of Technology, I went to New York State University to study, and obtained a degree in financial management and MIS within one and a half years. Shortly after returning to Taiwan, I joined IBM for 16 years and then joined Taiwan Electric Power Company. I am no longer a child in the eyes of the public. I worked hard to reverse my life and become the supervisor of a large enterprise, and changed my life story.

As a trial of the iron leather house, I worked hard to turn my back on my school.

My lifelong practice in my childhood deeply affected my life. When I was young, my father and mother went out to do odd jobs in order to take on the family. My brother and my grandmother lived in a rented iron leather house. The three of them slept in a wooden bed less than three square meters. The water pipes in the old home could not be installed, and when I had to use water, I still had to buy them from my neighborhood home. There was no toilet in the house, and if I wanted to go to the toilet, I could only borrow from my neighborhood, or use it in a nearby primary school.

At that time, I took a slutty foot every day. It was not until I was in the fifth grade of elementary school that I bought my first double shoes in my life because of participating in the dodge ball competition. The clothes I wear are almost covered with traces. Only during the New Year will you have the opportunity to buy new clothes, and you can only buy larger ones to wear for a long time. The underwear is made of flour bags printed with Sino-US cooperation. In order to separate the family plan, my brother and I have been working on handicrafts since we were young, and we also gave away papers and did some odd jobs. When I graduated from a primary school, I gave up my academic ranking for a bonus of 200 yuan, and my precious life was deeply imprinted in my heart.

Because the family is private and single, he often suffers cold-eyed treatment. Once I was invited to play at my classmate's home at the department store. I heard from my classmate's mother, "Long and dragons are exchanged, how can you give me such a classmate!" I felt sad. At that time, I told myself that although my family is not as good as others, I must work hard to recite the books to achieve good results and not let others look down on me. In order to save electricity, I went directly to the Land Public Hospital to sing the altar table as a desk. When I paid a lot of worship in the warehouse, I went to the spray pool and silver light outside the train station to recite the book.

Although there are many vigilances in society, there are also a lot of warmth. At that time, the help of family support improved the family situation. I also participated in the family support youth sharing camp, which has caused me a lot of life to be activated, and my concern has never stopped, making me feel warm. Therefore, when I have the ability, I will rejoice in society more actively. In addition to being a volunteer at home, I have become a family supporter for nearly thirty years.

When I have a good location and a harmonious person, I will never be able to succeed. After graduating, my first job was to work in Datong Company. After a while, I transferred to Datong Institute of Technology. These two jobs gave me a stable income and a good life. However, I wanted to have better development, so I applied for a grant from Datong Institute of Technology and was able to go abroad to study and study.

Going abroad is a time of transformation in my life. If I had not gone abroad to study, it would be impossible to go to work in a foreign IBM business. IBM has changed me a lot, which has opened my mind and learned various technical or management skills. Therefore, I have the opportunity to work in Taiwan Electric.

After going all the way, I have encountered countless setbacks and regrets. When I encounter setbacks, I am facing them and dealing with them. However, we must admit that we must achieve one thing, which is to "equality of the times, places, people and people are indispensable." Just trying harder may not necessarily be realized. There are too many people working hard. Sometimes, what we need is an opportunity. If you seize the opportunity, you will go up. Just like when I was a child, in addition to reading hard, I also needed help from others to seize the opportunity to move forward step by step.

If you want to reverse your life, in addition to really working hard, you must also have the spirit of not giving up and moving forward. First of all, with your own efforts, you can talk about the right place and people. If you don’t work hard and wait for the opportunity to fall from the sky, you will not be able to succeed. It will never happen without reason. You must be someone who deserves help or have factors worthy of trust, so that these resources will appear. The summary is ︱“Only by investing in yourself and becoming a good stock will attract others to invest in you.”

Secondly, you need to have the spirit of not giving up. If you can't wait for the opportunity or the precious person appears, don't be angry, but let go of your resentment, because some people think that they can't succeed with such hard work, so they give up their efforts. In this way, the opportunity will be farther and farther away from you.

Finally, for the matter of hard work, the standard of hard work is not set by oneself, but is compared. You have to compare it with others to see the clues. So when others thought I had worked hard, I felt that I would never work hard, otherwise I would not be able to pass it to others. Since you have not worked hard and have insufficient preparation, you must analyze the reasons and improve it, explore which block is not up to date, and then work harder to avoid missing the next opportunity..

First look at the opportunity, and then set the goal

In addition to working hard to prepare, I also recommend that you raise the goal a little higher. Assuming that your ability is only 60, the goal must be set to at least 80 or 90. If the goal is not achieved, the discount can exceed 60. So don’t set goals based on your own abilities. You must set them beyond your own abilities. Only then will you grow. If you only play safety cards, you will not grow.

Just like when I was considering studying in the United States, my family and friends around me raised the doubts, including: Do you really want to study abroad? Where does your money come from? Did you go abroad shortly after getting married? Can you overcome the culture and language of other places? In response to the doubts of all parties, my idea was "I have to challenge this path myself. If the challenge is successful, it will be very different in the future."

So, I chose to face the problem and then overcome it one by one. First of all, if you can overcome things by your own efforts, there is little problem. For example, in terms of cultural environment, language, and book reading, you can just work hard on yourself; as for some external factors, it is more difficult and you need to think of ways. For example, if I didn’t have enough money, I applied for the grant from Datong Institute of Technology, and the insufficient part was enough to work locally. For my wife, she had a stable work life without any worries, and she also supported me, allowing me to embark on the road to studying abroad without any worries.

Please remember, "Don't see difficulties first, you should see opportunities first, and your goal should be higher." It is important to see opportunities first, because if you see difficulties first, it will block your pace of moving forward and trap yourself in the same place without any open view; on the contrary, if you see opportunities first, you will want to master the opportunity. If you don't look forward, as long as you have enough ability, you will move forward, and you may be able to get over and seize the opportunity to succeed.

Many people complain that they are single, poor family background, and think that their life is very hard, so they are attracted to go on a wrong path. However, I did not regard being greedy as a hard thing, but instead turned it into an electric machine, a turn. Life is already very difficult, don’t be difficult for yourself anymore. I even think that God treats me well, and gives me a good head, allowing me to show my academic performance and have valuable help along the way; it also gives me a healthy body, and gives me the money to fight along the way.

In fact, there are some difficulties that can help people practice and grow. So if life can be repeated, I think there is nothing wrong with being born in a single family, because such an environment makes me more stress-resistant, more vigorous, and more knowledgeable and cherish blessings.

※This article is excerpted from the publication of "Life is difficult, you don't have to be difficult for yourself: 15 profound and moving single stories"